It Does the Meaning Of Love-Sex?

Love, which it's something needed for every creature on earth. I can't imagine how this world would turn to be without love. Love is just a feeling or it's just a descriptive word to describe how eager a person wants to be with another? However, i'll always have a perception that people of nowadays fell in love easily but is there such thing called "pure love" existed between persons who fell in love at the same time? Well, i guess i still have not found the answer, or maybe one day i shall know the truth behind. "Pure love", such term which its meaning is deteriorating for people of nowadays, at least for youths. Often, i heard stories from my lecturer, who taught me Biology during my STPM and is the one who comments alot on contemporary issues involved with youths like us; who would be befriended a boyfriend or a girlfriend at the starting age of 15 was a prevalence, is due to ranging hormones which alters the physiological and structure of the body causes attractions between the oppossite sexes. He also commented that youths always confused with lust as love, which i think he has the point after all. I can see his point while he's sharing some story involved with a couple, whose aged 17 years old, practised pre-marital sex and caused the girl to pregnant. He has always highlighted that true love shouldn't be tainted with lust, however, an inverted version which recapitulates the statement would says, "sex would be a tool where it brings a relationship to the next stage"?! As a matter of fact, would it be a preference or a trend for people of nowadays to enjoy the lust much compared to such thing called "pure love"? The funniest thing would came from my lecturer was, at least people are not concerned with issues of piety, lust would bring troubles caused by STD, which i think it's a fact that everyone knows perfectly. Hence, i guess humans easily get confused while we, humans have always proclaimed that we are the most intelligent creatures on earth, perhaps have dominated the planet million years ago, yet our action is contradictory with our sense.

Quote of the day: Intelligent doesn't mean a person thinks logically, lust doesn't mean a person loves you.

Man Or Woman?

Astounded with the title? Well, it's started with a case i heard in a radio programme. The case was about a newly-wed cum just-gave-birth mother worried about who's going to look after her newborn baby while she and her husband, are out for work as both of them posses their own career. She also emphasized that her monthly income is about thirty-percent more compared to her husband salary. As a result of that statement, she had even argued over that issue with her husband periodically. Often, issue of taking care of newborn baby is predetermined as an obligation to a mother rather than a father. Meanwhile, when questions asked about baby belongs to who, the person who named "father" will be claiming that baby belongs to him, when comes to separation. As a matter of fact, responsible of taking care of newborn baby isn't must be pointed to the mother only, but to the father as well. Men of nowadays should be competent as not only in their career, but too in looking after their children. As surveys had been done decade ago, father plays an important in the growth of infants as well as children and it helps men to understand more of the pain carried by the women, not only the labour pain but also the ache of the heart as a parent to the children as to teach them and to enable them to grow into healthy individuals. Though responsible of educating children belongs to mother was a prevalence, due to mother was the one who has long period of time spent around the kids, however, either father is able to implement values and experiences of life to the children teaching them to thrive in life later on. Therefore, coming back to that case, duty as a father to the newborn baby and duty as a husband to his wife, perhaps he is able to leave the pride off, he shall be able to do a great job of that.

Quote of the day: Nothing's impossible and impossibility is false.

Another Family Tragedy

Yesterday i was watching an interview of a young married couple. The story was about a husband who begged for his wife to return home with him after she has been missing for few months. The whole incident happened with the man's wife ran out of the house while she was sicked of her husband abusive treatment. She claimed that she has been hit perpetually by her husband, even over a common argument and often fights are prevalent for both of them once their argument got severe. However, many reasons had caused the man to persist such act and one of the inducive reasons is due to his wife had disobeyed his request over the issue that she has been going online beyond the limit and the man also believes that his wife has been talking to someone on the internet, which makes him feel loathsome all the time. The whole interview was tense not only for both of them, but the interviewer and the audiences as well. After watching the interview, i'm having plenty of thoughts over the incident, as aren't both of them should calm down and think of the best solution in order to solve problems happened between them? Often, i believed a relationship works better when the couple, both of them ought to be conscientious in solving obstacles together and shall not escape from the fact that they are having problems. However, as a matter of fact, isn't such thing like toleration is missing between a couple, especially young couples nowadays? Perhaps, isn't it due to the vigor character of individuals that has caused situation worsened? Anyhow, back to square one, mutual understanding among each other is vital in a relationship and this is a must to establish a healthy relationship.

Quote of the day: Speak out the truth is better than keep quiet, tolerate is better than being obstinate

The First Flashback of My Life Remedy

Flashback, something that makes you smile or moody? Well, for me it's totally a fun thing, however, at the same time, it makes me feel awkward. Looking back at the photos of my friends and places where they have travelled to makes me have a sudden momentum to join them, however it was gone long time ago. I was once had the chance to join them and most likely i should be at one of the place in the photo instead, but i've failed, perhaps i have let my fellows down as well. Whenever i recall those memories, i'll remember myself for doing some homework or extra tutorials that i have asked from the school teachers for the sake of achieving merits in exam and there will be friends phoning me and asking me out to some places. Of course, i'll be rejecting their requests without hestitation by giving them piles of ludicrous reasons which eventually sounds absurb when i've recalled them nowadays. I have no idea it implies a great impact to my life with my friends later on which i begin to feel like being isolated when i have graduated from my high school. Perhaps, i have never felt regret of it but somehow it makes me feel incomplete in my teenage life. The imperfection of having fun with my buddies and hanging out with my friends has really drawn a huge question mark in my head and thinking of that problem, it seems like i'll never have a satisfy answer for that (yup, i've gotta study for exams!). Eventually, i screwed up my social life and failed to communicate with anyone, even with my close friends. They felt that i was obnoxious and friendships between me and my friends have begun to grow distance. I realised i was a twit at that moment, it was never like me in person. Time fled and i've tried fixing myself into someone who's more pleasant to be with and i've moved on to make new friends as well as keeping a well-balanced contact with my previous friends. This has really taught me a great lesson and i'll always bear that in mind, friends are not whorever you make friend with and then dump them aside when you have a more important event in your life, you should treasure them instead.

Quote of the day: Never say never when you have the chance