Wednesday, September 16, 2009

It Does the Meaning Of Love-Sex?

Love, which it's something needed for every creature on earth. I can't imagine how this world would turn to be without love. Love is just a feeling or it's just a descriptive word to describe how eager a person wants to be with another? However, i'll always have a perception that people of nowadays fell in love easily but is there such thing called "pure love" existed between persons who fell in love at the same time? Well, i guess i still have not found the answer, or maybe one day i shall know the truth behind. "Pure love", such term which its meaning is deteriorating for people of nowadays, at least for youths. Often, i heard stories from my lecturer, who taught me Biology during my STPM and is the one who comments alot on contemporary issues involved with youths like us; who would be befriended a boyfriend or a girlfriend at the starting age of 15 was a prevalence, is due to ranging hormones which alters the physiological and structure of the body causes attractions between the oppossite sexes. He also commented that youths always confused with lust as love, which i think he has the point after all. I can see his point while he's sharing some story involved with a couple, whose aged 17 years old, practised pre-marital sex and caused the girl to pregnant. He has always highlighted that true love shouldn't be tainted with lust, however, an inverted version which recapitulates the statement would says, "sex would be a tool where it brings a relationship to the next stage"?! As a matter of fact, would it be a preference or a trend for people of nowadays to enjoy the lust much compared to such thing called "pure love"? The funniest thing would came from my lecturer was, at least people are not concerned with issues of piety, lust would bring troubles caused by STD, which i think it's a fact that everyone knows perfectly. Hence, i guess humans easily get confused while we, humans have always proclaimed that we are the most intelligent creatures on earth, perhaps have dominated the planet million years ago, yet our action is contradictory with our sense.

Quote of the day: Intelligent doesn't mean a person thinks logically, lust doesn't mean a person loves you.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Man Or Woman?

Astounded with the title? Well, it's started with a case i heard in a radio programme. The case was about a newly-wed cum just-gave-birth mother worried about who's going to look after her newborn baby while she and her husband, are out for work as both of them posses their own career. She also emphasized that her monthly income is about thirty-percent more compared to her husband salary. As a result of that statement, she had even argued over that issue with her husband periodically. Often, issue of taking care of newborn baby is predetermined as an obligation to a mother rather than a father. Meanwhile, when questions asked about baby belongs to who, the person who named "father" will be claiming that baby belongs to him, when comes to separation. As a matter of fact, responsible of taking care of newborn baby isn't must be pointed to the mother only, but to the father as well. Men of nowadays should be competent as not only in their career, but too in looking after their children. As surveys had been done decade ago, father plays an important in the growth of infants as well as children and it helps men to understand more of the pain carried by the women, not only the labour pain but also the ache of the heart as a parent to the children as to teach them and to enable them to grow into healthy individuals. Though responsible of educating children belongs to mother was a prevalence, due to mother was the one who has long period of time spent around the kids, however, either father is able to implement values and experiences of life to the children teaching them to thrive in life later on. Therefore, coming back to that case, duty as a father to the newborn baby and duty as a husband to his wife, perhaps he is able to leave the pride off, he shall be able to do a great job of that.

Quote of the day: Nothing's impossible and impossibility is false.