Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Man Or Woman?

Astounded with the title? Well, it's started with a case i heard in a radio programme. The case was about a newly-wed cum just-gave-birth mother worried about who's going to look after her newborn baby while she and her husband, are out for work as both of them posses their own career. She also emphasized that her monthly income is about thirty-percent more compared to her husband salary. As a result of that statement, she had even argued over that issue with her husband periodically. Often, issue of taking care of newborn baby is predetermined as an obligation to a mother rather than a father. Meanwhile, when questions asked about baby belongs to who, the person who named "father" will be claiming that baby belongs to him, when comes to separation. As a matter of fact, responsible of taking care of newborn baby isn't must be pointed to the mother only, but to the father as well. Men of nowadays should be competent as not only in their career, but too in looking after their children. As surveys had been done decade ago, father plays an important in the growth of infants as well as children and it helps men to understand more of the pain carried by the women, not only the labour pain but also the ache of the heart as a parent to the children as to teach them and to enable them to grow into healthy individuals. Though responsible of educating children belongs to mother was a prevalence, due to mother was the one who has long period of time spent around the kids, however, either father is able to implement values and experiences of life to the children teaching them to thrive in life later on. Therefore, coming back to that case, duty as a father to the newborn baby and duty as a husband to his wife, perhaps he is able to leave the pride off, he shall be able to do a great job of that.

Quote of the day: Nothing's impossible and impossibility is false.

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