Friday, August 14, 2009

Another Family Tragedy

Yesterday i was watching an interview of a young married couple. The story was about a husband who begged for his wife to return home with him after she has been missing for few months. The whole incident happened with the man's wife ran out of the house while she was sicked of her husband abusive treatment. She claimed that she has been hit perpetually by her husband, even over a common argument and often fights are prevalent for both of them once their argument got severe. However, many reasons had caused the man to persist such act and one of the inducive reasons is due to his wife had disobeyed his request over the issue that she has been going online beyond the limit and the man also believes that his wife has been talking to someone on the internet, which makes him feel loathsome all the time. The whole interview was tense not only for both of them, but the interviewer and the audiences as well. After watching the interview, i'm having plenty of thoughts over the incident, as aren't both of them should calm down and think of the best solution in order to solve problems happened between them? Often, i believed a relationship works better when the couple, both of them ought to be conscientious in solving obstacles together and shall not escape from the fact that they are having problems. However, as a matter of fact, isn't such thing like toleration is missing between a couple, especially young couples nowadays? Perhaps, isn't it due to the vigor character of individuals that has caused situation worsened? Anyhow, back to square one, mutual understanding among each other is vital in a relationship and this is a must to establish a healthy relationship.

Quote of the day: Speak out the truth is better than keep quiet, tolerate is better than being obstinate

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